I'm curious to know if anyone has experience:
When someone asks me to play for an event and I'm unavailable, I'm often given the follow-up question: "Well, do you know anyone who can?"
This has been tricky territory for me.
The cleanest answer is, "No, and have a nice day."
A messier answer has been to start providing a bunch of phone numbers & emails. For some - the distraught or the confused - this hasn't been smooth.
I have in the past admitted that I do, and have done the favor of sending out job opportunities to the players I know. When this works, there's gratitude from everyone involved.
But at times, it's backfired - and this favor can turn me into something of an event coordinator.
Do you refer along jobs you can't make? Is there a neat way to do this, stepping out of the middle?
When someone asks me to play for an event and I'm unavailable, I'm often given the follow-up question: "Well, do you know anyone who can?"
This has been tricky territory for me.
The cleanest answer is, "No, and have a nice day."
A messier answer has been to start providing a bunch of phone numbers & emails. For some - the distraught or the confused - this hasn't been smooth.
I have in the past admitted that I do, and have done the favor of sending out job opportunities to the players I know. When this works, there's gratitude from everyone involved.
But at times, it's backfired - and this favor can turn me into something of an event coordinator.
Do you refer along jobs you can't make? Is there a neat way to do this, stepping out of the middle?
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